5 good rules for granny annex living!

No 1

Respect each others private space. Living in close proximity after a long time can be quite a challenge.

Having separate front doors, if logistically possible can be symbolic in maintaining a sense of personnel space.

A separate kitchen also keeps the female members of the family apart.

No2

Discuss finances. If an adult child is financing the house, their parent can feel beholden.

Equally if the parent has contributed to a bigger hop use their child may feel indebted.

No 3

Work out who does what. Divide up the chores as much as practically possible so no one gets resentful.

And don’t assume a granny living in the annex means free child care!

No 4

Have a conversation about what care is needed, rather it being arranged without discussion or consent.

No 5

Keep talking.

Don’t bottle up your grievances: arrange regular times to sit down and give everyone a chance to express their opinion.

This list was taken from a Daily Telegraph article worth reading about How To Live With An Ageing Parent [and not go mad]!!!

THANKS

David